I GO TO THE HILLS.....

..... when my heart is stressed out! Oh wait... I think that line was "lonely". My husband and kids feel lonely since I am always buried under work now! The big news is that I am doing the costuming/hair/makeup for a production of the Sound of Music. I think it is going to turn out amazing! ....unfortunately, it is a big big BIG job. There are in between 60 and 70 cast members. And I am short 24 nun habits!! I have NO idea where to find them. But the cast is fun, and the 40's style is so stunning. I am really looking forward to making theatrical magic.

New Job, New Job!!!

... I know I got you all excited with the title, but it isn't me that has the new job, it's my husband! He got a new full time job (in addition to his part time job...I love that man) at Ryan's Steakhouse on the south side of Indianapolis... and today is his first day cooking there. I think it will be a change for him.... back to the ordinary grindstone of a restaurant job instead of getting to wear his chef's whites at a catering gig or an upscale restaurant. I am proud of him. He's working a lot so I can take a semester off working to focus on school. Though with my difficult classes.... I'm not making as much of an effort as I should be. Like this morning... when the alarm buzzed at 7:30 for my 8am class.... Jeff asked, "Well what are we doing?" and I said, "Going back to bed...." and so we did. Not the best use of my class time... but at least I'm not sleepy anymore, and I was able to get up and keep Jeff company while he was getting ready.

1st Anniversary!

Well folks, it's official! Jeff and I have been married for a whole year!!! (And no one has killed anyone else. I chalk this up to the threat of jail.) All kidding aside, I am so happy to be married to someone who gets me completely. No pretending, no games, just genuine love and respect for one another. I think that's a good thing to build a marriage on.
We had an amazing weekend.... I took Saturday, Jeff took Sunday, and we both planned outings and dinners that the other would enjoy. (I managed to ruin Jeff's plans by going out with friends Friday night... in heels no less.... and losing my car. I walked about two miles in heels and got blisters about an inch around in various places on my feet. I hobbled around all weekend, and we couldn't go to Conner Prairie like he planned.)
I invited Jeff's best friends up for Saturday, and we went around Circle Center Mall, and ended up in Tilt arcade. Jeff and his bff Sketch were like little boys again. Sketch's wife Zanne and I went and checked out the Chocolate Shop... I can't remember if it is the Godiva one or not.... oh well. My blood sugar hit the roof after looking in the window. :) It was insanely crowded! The Circle City Classic was that weekend, and the whole city was downtown. We ended the evening by going out to the Hard Rock Cafe. It was delicious. I recommend the pulled pork sandwich. Yum! Jeff and I went down to Monument Circle after our friends left and got some ice cream at South Bend Chocolate Co. I really recommend their fondue. It is excellent... but not gluten free. Then we headed home to snuggle and watch a movie together. It was a fun day!
Jeff had planned to take me out on some outings that required a lot of walking... like to Conner Prairie, and then to Holiday Park for a picnic and some hiking.... but my feet were so blistered I could barely make it from one end of the house to another. I felt so bad for messing things up... but Jeff came up with another plan... which was equally romantic! He took me out to Famous Dave's BBQ for lunch... it was so fantastic. If you love good BBQ, and can spend 13-15 bucks... this is not a place to miss! We left there stuffed, and with food still on our plates. He then took me to Big Lots. (call me crazy... but they have one dollar hand soaps...one of my many weaknesses!) I left with some lime coconut verbana handsoap, and a country orchard candle. Life smells wonderful at the Frazier house!! We then went to a discount theatre and saw Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows part 2. Another one of my weaknesses. That man is amazing. :) I loved seeing it again. After the movie was over, he took me to a half-price bookstore and let me pick out a few new reads. It was a lovely afternoon.
We had dinner at Uno's... he had planned to take me to an Italian restaurant... but what fun would that be for him? He has Celiac's disease, which means he can't eat any wheat or wheat gluten, and that is almost all of an Italian restaurant's menu. So I convinced him that Uno's was a good choice for everyone. They have excellent Gluten-free pizza. Jeff had a pepperoni, sausage and mushroom pizza, and I had a broccoli, goat cheese and fig pizza with a balsamic glaze. It may sound weird... but it was fantastic. I also sampled their french onion soup... one of the best I have ever had!!

The new wedding ring!

And to top off the wonderful weekend... we had just gotten home, and I had changed into pajamas. I was sitting on the loveseat, and Jeff asked me what my favorite part of the day was... I told him that I loved seeing Harry Potter, but my favorite was probably the bookstore. He put his hands in front of me.... and then said "Oh, it wasn't this??'' And in his hands, in a black velvet ring box, was the most beautiful diamond ring. He then asked me to marry him all over again, and told me it was the ring he should have gotten me. I was speechless. He is a wonderful, romantic husband... and I am a very lucky wife!!

Hello world, it's been a while...

We all piled up on the couch... exhausted! We just unpacked the truck!

Jeff and the kids playing in the new backyard!

          Wow, has it ever been a while. It seems like just yesterday that I had time to blog about life amidst the wedding plans. And now it will be one year of marriage next weekend! We just moved to a new little house in Indianapolis... there are some fixer-upper things to be taken care of.... but overall, we love it here! We are both in school, and in spite of the distance, we see the kids a lot! I am making a goal of posting at least once a week.... considering it's been over a year since my last post.... I think it's a bit lofty. But we'll see. :)

Let there be..... INTERNET!

I feel that today, I must write a letter to Comcast.
Dear Comcast,
I love you. You have made my apartment so much more joyful by giving Jeffrey foodnetwork, and the access to the knowledge of the worldwideweb. It has also made Facebooking and blogging much easier for me, and reduced the odd looks that my fellow library goers give me when I yell or laugh. (Ok, I don't really yell, but I wanted you to get the idea of how much your services are appreciated.) We also enjoy on-demand. Who knew a library full of movies could provide so much entertainment? I didn't. You probably did... but it's news to me. So thank you, Comcast. Thank you.
Love,
Rachael
So as you can probably tell, we are well along in the moving, everything is moved out of our storage place, and almost everything is out of the old house. We haven't unpacked yet, mostly due to the heat and our general depression about having to move in the first place, but we have a lofty goal of being moved all together and unpacked sometime this week. And as you can probably tell.... we got cable and internets! Life is very very good. Jeff came over today and we watched some food network... and then we went and moved. Then we came back and scoured online for RSVP's. And then watched more food network. How grand these new-fangled inventions are.
On the wedding front... almost all is done! A few songs saved to a cd, a food trip and some delicious cooking, and a dress fitting, and we will be all done! I'm sure a few details will pop up here and there to be fixed, but I can see the light at the end of the tunnel! It's almost here! It's a month away! (and I almost passed out after typing that. Insert excited/freaked out scream here.)
I think all this calls for a nap. A day of finalizing and moving has been very stressful. Plus my pillows are serenading me. Goodnight, world.

The battle of the move

Well we found an apartment. Rejoice! I was having a minor hyperventilating moment... but I'm pretty sure I'm making a full recovery. Now we have the joyful process of moving about two blocks south... with all the things we stuffed into a three bedroom house. Including a rather large solid oak however you spell the word that sounds like arm-war. (It's all Jeffrey on that one.) And then we started the magical process of stripping an painting a solid wood couch/loveseat. (shout out to Megan Byard... I am feeling your recent pain.) I hope to be moving in sometime this week. It will be nice to finally settle. I have been feeling displaced and living out of suitcases for a while... I'd like to settle at least one thing in my life.

And on the wedding front... we got a wedding musician!! His name is Hank, and he and his buddy play Celtic/Irish music live! Yay for one more thing we don't have to worry about. We got my wedding band today, and dropped it off to be sized... so now after the couple of errands we run this weekend, we'll just need to get food, and then burn some music on to CD's. I am feeling far less stressed about this now. I just need to get all the rsvp's taken care of.... and the world be a beautiful place.

It has begun!

So I never thought I would become one of those people who blogs...or writes down anything pertaining to their lives.... but I don't keep a diary, and I sometimes forget the awesome experiences and thoughts I'd like to share. And all too often, I don't update people with calls or emails letting them know how the heck I am or what in the world I'm doing. So here it is. Start the fanfare. You over there with the trumpet...get playing! I officially have a blog! (I still have the feeling that I'm going to be mocked over the dinner table about this... so anyone can feel free to tell Jeffrey that blogging is ok, and that I haven't succumbed to the life of a housewife yet.)

So here is the news, everyone. I'm getting married in 40 days. Yes, I know. Freaking out? But of course. I'm pretty sure I have almost everything done except the food, and the music. Then I just need to pick up my dress, and add the straps to my bridesmaid's dresses. (they came with these nasty little sash things that I'm going to convert into straps!) It can sometimes feel overwhelming, and disappointing, but I'm trying to stay on top of things. I just wish everyone would rsvp! My cousin is making my cake now... she is so talented, and I know it will be gorgeous. I feel like I need a person to keep everything on track and organized. But hey, do it yourself means just that.

Other business... we aren't going to have the house after all. *tears* Jeff and I found this awesome house that was over 100 years old, and we were going to fix it up and make it a home. They guy selling it to use was sort of flake... so I was worried to begin with, and I had reason to be. We called to see where our purchasing contract was, and he let us know that he was essentially bankrupt, and that the house is going into foreclosure. We have no way of buying the house outright, so we're losing it. Now we are on the apartment hunt... assuming the guy ever returns our down-payment. I hope it all works out.

I'm hoping to start cosmetology school in the fall... Jeff is looking for another job... heck, we're both looking for other jobs. We're itching to move up in the world. :) Jeff's kids are growing up so quick, and everything is working out in other areas. That's the update.... more news to follow!!