.....starting over again.

Well the past two semesters have been a partial waste of time. In an Intro to Health Careers class, I managed to barf all over my desk station at the sight of a venipuncture. (or for you medical civilians... it's just someone getting their blood drawn.) Which started me thinking that maybe this isn't the career that I should be getting into.... especially if I can't hold my bagels at the sight of a simple procedure like that. So I'm starting over. I wanted to be a chef when I was younger, and my husband is in culinary school... and that has always been a passion of mine as well. I just want to learn the baking and pastry side of things... and maybe open a tea room/bakery sometime in the future. For now, I need to add a career plan to that, something that I know I am good at and love doing. So for now, I am going to get a Pastry Culinarian Ccertificate, and work towards a degree in Hospitality, my concentration would in Event Planning. My husband and I have actually thought about starting up a business for me... in wedding planning!! I planned mine, and helped out with some friends. I love lists.... and everything wedding. I can't think of a job that I would be better at! (Well... maybe as a movie star, but until my big break happens, I need a career back up plan.) This is going to be a whole new chapter in my life, and I am excited to see where it takes me. It tacks on an extra semester of school, but I think it will be worth it. I am a little apprehensive, mainly because the medical field would have given me a lot of job security. But I really feel like I should be doing something that will make me happy. I am in for a rough semester though.... biology, math, and serve safe certifications. On the plus side.... I'm taking a basic cooking class. That should be very interesting. Here's to the future..... now I need a drink. :)

I GO TO THE HILLS.....

..... when my heart is stressed out! Oh wait... I think that line was "lonely". My husband and kids feel lonely since I am always buried under work now! The big news is that I am doing the costuming/hair/makeup for a production of the Sound of Music. I think it is going to turn out amazing! ....unfortunately, it is a big big BIG job. There are in between 60 and 70 cast members. And I am short 24 nun habits!! I have NO idea where to find them. But the cast is fun, and the 40's style is so stunning. I am really looking forward to making theatrical magic.

New Job, New Job!!!

... I know I got you all excited with the title, but it isn't me that has the new job, it's my husband! He got a new full time job (in addition to his part time job...I love that man) at Ryan's Steakhouse on the south side of Indianapolis... and today is his first day cooking there. I think it will be a change for him.... back to the ordinary grindstone of a restaurant job instead of getting to wear his chef's whites at a catering gig or an upscale restaurant. I am proud of him. He's working a lot so I can take a semester off working to focus on school. Though with my difficult classes.... I'm not making as much of an effort as I should be. Like this morning... when the alarm buzzed at 7:30 for my 8am class.... Jeff asked, "Well what are we doing?" and I said, "Going back to bed...." and so we did. Not the best use of my class time... but at least I'm not sleepy anymore, and I was able to get up and keep Jeff company while he was getting ready.

1st Anniversary!

Well folks, it's official! Jeff and I have been married for a whole year!!! (And no one has killed anyone else. I chalk this up to the threat of jail.) All kidding aside, I am so happy to be married to someone who gets me completely. No pretending, no games, just genuine love and respect for one another. I think that's a good thing to build a marriage on.
We had an amazing weekend.... I took Saturday, Jeff took Sunday, and we both planned outings and dinners that the other would enjoy. (I managed to ruin Jeff's plans by going out with friends Friday night... in heels no less.... and losing my car. I walked about two miles in heels and got blisters about an inch around in various places on my feet. I hobbled around all weekend, and we couldn't go to Conner Prairie like he planned.)
I invited Jeff's best friends up for Saturday, and we went around Circle Center Mall, and ended up in Tilt arcade. Jeff and his bff Sketch were like little boys again. Sketch's wife Zanne and I went and checked out the Chocolate Shop... I can't remember if it is the Godiva one or not.... oh well. My blood sugar hit the roof after looking in the window. :) It was insanely crowded! The Circle City Classic was that weekend, and the whole city was downtown. We ended the evening by going out to the Hard Rock Cafe. It was delicious. I recommend the pulled pork sandwich. Yum! Jeff and I went down to Monument Circle after our friends left and got some ice cream at South Bend Chocolate Co. I really recommend their fondue. It is excellent... but not gluten free. Then we headed home to snuggle and watch a movie together. It was a fun day!
Jeff had planned to take me out on some outings that required a lot of walking... like to Conner Prairie, and then to Holiday Park for a picnic and some hiking.... but my feet were so blistered I could barely make it from one end of the house to another. I felt so bad for messing things up... but Jeff came up with another plan... which was equally romantic! He took me out to Famous Dave's BBQ for lunch... it was so fantastic. If you love good BBQ, and can spend 13-15 bucks... this is not a place to miss! We left there stuffed, and with food still on our plates. He then took me to Big Lots. (call me crazy... but they have one dollar hand soaps...one of my many weaknesses!) I left with some lime coconut verbana handsoap, and a country orchard candle. Life smells wonderful at the Frazier house!! We then went to a discount theatre and saw Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows part 2. Another one of my weaknesses. That man is amazing. :) I loved seeing it again. After the movie was over, he took me to a half-price bookstore and let me pick out a few new reads. It was a lovely afternoon.
We had dinner at Uno's... he had planned to take me to an Italian restaurant... but what fun would that be for him? He has Celiac's disease, which means he can't eat any wheat or wheat gluten, and that is almost all of an Italian restaurant's menu. So I convinced him that Uno's was a good choice for everyone. They have excellent Gluten-free pizza. Jeff had a pepperoni, sausage and mushroom pizza, and I had a broccoli, goat cheese and fig pizza with a balsamic glaze. It may sound weird... but it was fantastic. I also sampled their french onion soup... one of the best I have ever had!!

The new wedding ring!

And to top off the wonderful weekend... we had just gotten home, and I had changed into pajamas. I was sitting on the loveseat, and Jeff asked me what my favorite part of the day was... I told him that I loved seeing Harry Potter, but my favorite was probably the bookstore. He put his hands in front of me.... and then said "Oh, it wasn't this??'' And in his hands, in a black velvet ring box, was the most beautiful diamond ring. He then asked me to marry him all over again, and told me it was the ring he should have gotten me. I was speechless. He is a wonderful, romantic husband... and I am a very lucky wife!!

Hello world, it's been a while...

We all piled up on the couch... exhausted! We just unpacked the truck!

Jeff and the kids playing in the new backyard!

          Wow, has it ever been a while. It seems like just yesterday that I had time to blog about life amidst the wedding plans. And now it will be one year of marriage next weekend! We just moved to a new little house in Indianapolis... there are some fixer-upper things to be taken care of.... but overall, we love it here! We are both in school, and in spite of the distance, we see the kids a lot! I am making a goal of posting at least once a week.... considering it's been over a year since my last post.... I think it's a bit lofty. But we'll see. :)